Paisley dad thanks wife for saving his life after cancer shock

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A dad of two from Paisley has thanked his wife for helping to save his life.

Ian Milton, 35, came close to ignoring a persistent cough that started before Christmas last year, dismissing it at first as a severe cold or COVID-19.

But after antibiotics failed to shift it and he suffered sudden weight loss, his wife Stacey Milton, 34, finally persuaded him to return to the GP for tests.

Ian received treatment at Royal Alexandria Hospital in Paisley(Image: Supplied)

Just days later, on March 30 this year, Ian was diagnosed with Hodgkin Lymphoma, a type of blood cancer.

Now after five months and 20 chemotherapy sessions, Ian will mark successfully completing treatment for the disease as guest of honour at Cancer Research UK’s Shine Night Walk in Edinburgh.

It will be an emotional moment as he sounds the horn on the start line at The Mound on Saturday September 27 to send more than 1,000 Scots on the 10k. 

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Ian opened up about his "amazing" wife and the emotional support she provided during a difficult time for the family.

He said: "She was right there with me the day I was told I had cancer and in the worrying weeks before I was diagnosed too.

"I was a busy dad and always on the go. I was working full-time time and I kept hoping my symptoms would just disappear.

"But it was Stacey who said, ‘This isn’t right. You need to go back to the GP.’

"When doctors discovered I had cancer, I ended up in hospital on a drip for ten days.

"They couldn’t believe I’d actually kept going for as long as I did.

"Right from the start, I decided to remain positive and take on each challenge the disease threw at me and I knew I had Stacey and a wonderful family behind me.”

Every year around 34,600 people are diagnosed with cancer in Scotland.

Ian, who works as an ambulance care assistant, has devoted his career to caring for others.

He regularly works at mass concerts, fundraising events like Shine Night Walk and Race for Life as well as sporting fixtures across the country as a key part of the first aid team looking after the public.

But on Mother’s Day this year, the tables were turned when Ian found himself in a hospital room at the Royal Alexandra Hospital in Paisley being cared for by others.

Ian also detailed the difficult nature of sharing the news of his cancer with his children, Keira, 16, and Ollie, 10.

He continued: "I am proud of both our children and how they coped with the news.

“It was just months before Keira sat her national five exams at school.

"I worried about what kind of stress news about cancer would put her under.

"I didn’t want to upset the kids. And I was used to being always out and about at work.

"Instead those first few days felt long in a hospital room.”

Ian lost his hair to the side effects of chemotherapy shortly after he began treatment at the hospital’s haematology day unit.

But with more time at home than usual, he was able to attend most of his son’s football games with St Convals in Linwood and drive his daughter Keira to dance classes. He had his final chemotherapy session in July this year.

He continues to receive regular check-ups, but the latest scans show no evidence of disease.

Iain said: "When I was first diagnosed, I didn’t know what the outcome was going to be, so I was determined to spend as much time with the children as I could.

“But after the second cycle of chemotherapy, I was told the cancer was shrinking, so I knew the treatment was working.

"And after round four it was a relief when I learnt that it was looking very good.

“The nurses understood that there were important things like my son’s tenth birthday party that I didn’t want to miss.

"I can’t fault the NHS. They’ve been brilliant.”

Now Ian is urging people to help beat cancer one stride at a time by taking part in Shine Night Walk. Cancer Research UK’s annual Shine Night Walk Edinburgh starts at the Scottish National Gallery on The Mound at 7pm then passes famous landmarks including Holyrood Palace, the Scottish Parliament, Arthur’s Seat and Edinburgh Castle.

Shine Night Walk participants can choose to support work into the cancer type closest to their hearts, such as ovarian, prostate, bowel, lung or breast cancer – among other types of the disease - or simply give to where the need is greatest.  

Lisa Adams, Cancer Research UK spokeswoman for Scotland, added: “Our scientists have helped to double cancer survival in the UK in the last 50 years.

"We’ve led the development of chemotherapy and radiotherapy, paved the way for targeted treatments and improved the way we use surgery to tackle cancer.

"But, with nearly 1 in 2 people set to be diagnosed with the disease in their lifetime, we can’t stop there.

"So, we’re grateful to Ian for helping to raise vital awareness.   

 “Our vision is a world where everybody lives longer, better lives free from the fear of cancer and money raised through events like Shine Night Walk is critical to making this a reality.

"Whether people walk for loved ones, for future generations or with friends old and new, they’ll be helping to power more progress – September 27 is Edinburgh’s moment to shine."

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